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NASHVILLEDOM	Posted: 2005-04-26 08:06:23
Forum Maniac USA 2541 Posts	Are they Ultra liberal, have an identity crisis or something else? What say you? nd -- At the hot one when I remember to check it.
ladycass	Posted: 2005-04-26 08:13:57
Forum Regular USA 964 Posts	Naw I am not really liberal. ( Though I do notice most BDSM folk are.) I switch because I am a sadistic submissive. I really enjoy inflicting. Dominants don't like to be inflicted apon. Submissives do. I also very much need a strong Dominant male in my life to feel really happy and complete. As long as my desire to Top doesn't interfere with that ... being a switch is fulfilling for me. -- Sooner or later the question comes up in every medical student's career. How much shock-trauma can the patient stand? Different instuctors answer the question in different ways. But cut to its base level, the answer is always another question: How badly does the patient want to survive?---Stephen King, The Survivor Type
Lucresha	Posted: 2005-04-26 08:16:12
Forum Apprentice USA 453 Posts	something else... i think they like both sides.. the grass is never greener.. they just walk over to the other side of the fence i'm a bottom... i love spankings most of all... so having a good appreciation for spanking, i can easily deliver them.... does that make me a top?.. no... nor a switch... just someone who knows a lot about spankings and loves them..... i love them so much i want everyone to enjoy them.. so will gladly spank your ass (you can spank mine too) -- My days are past, my purposes are broken off, even the thoughts of my heart - She is empty, and void, and waste, and the heart melteth... the bible °´°+,¸,+°´°^° F.E.A.R. - fuck everything and run
NASHVILLEDOM	Posted: 2005-04-26 08:17:44
Forum Maniac USA 2541 Posts	The term liberal in this context refers to sexual/LS not political. nd -- At the hot one when I remember to check it.
Diablere	Posted: 2005-04-26 08:25:39
Forum Regular United Kingdom 880 Posts	Just versatile that all. -- Your only jealous because the VOICES don't talk to you too!! darth_diablere@yahoo.co.uk http://groups.msn.com/DIABLERE http://www.kingsofchaos.com/recruit.php?uniqid=b69zf7qe
ladycass	Posted: 2005-04-26 08:32:28
Forum Regular USA 964 Posts	Hummm what is liberal sexually? I mean ... I don't have sex with submissives ... I don't sleep around and I am not promiscuous at all. I do however Top for around 2-4 scenes a month. These times I top are in the presence of my Dominant .. he helps much of the time. I don't do it for him though. (though he enjoys it.) I sought out these sort of things whether I am single or not. So the answer is sort of ... Because we like it? It is sort of like asking someone why they are a Dominant, or why they are a submissive. It seems to be kind of hard wired into me. -- Sooner or later the question comes up in every medical student's career. How much shock-trauma can the patient stand? Different instuctors answer the question in different ways. But cut to its base level, the answer is always another question: How badly does the patient want to survive?---Stephen King, The Survivor Type
Skyczarina	Posted: 2005-04-26 08:43:21
Forum Initiate USA 23 Posts	NASHVILLEDOM: Are they Ultra liberal, have an identity crisis or something else? What say you? nd -- At the hot one when I remember to check it. Everyone is the way they are for different reasons. Me, I'm greedy when it comes to sensations. -- ~Sophia "This would be a lot more fun if one of us was tied up."
cinnimini	Posted: 2005-04-26 08:55:11
Forum Apprentice USA 397 Posts	I don't know but they hurt like hell... yum. thoughtfully tracing the marks on my thigh from last week's outing in the woods...
Invictus_Maximu s	Posted: 2005-04-26 08:59:07
Devil In Residence Premium Member USA 2485 Posts	cinnimini: I don't know but they hurt like hell... yum. thoughtfully tracing the marks on my thigh from last week's outing in the woods... ROFL!!! You read my mind... Max -- Faith chooses a leader. Courage its followers... "Saddle Up All You Cowboys! Gunna Ride!!" Gunnery Sgt. Milton Frye, 1934-1997 "It's your health, not your discomfort we're concerned with" Mr Cruel One "Stupid stupid laws!" katalyst Welcome to My Domain, http://www.invictusdomain.com/
mouksa	Posted: 2005-04-26 09:15:06
Forum Apprentice Premium Member USA 148 Posts	Every major psychological system of human development urges balance. Every “up” must be balanced by a “down”, every “good” must be balanced by a “bad”. These concepts are not for everyone, but only those with the aptitude to achieve unity within them. To truly understand these concepts one must perform an interior dissection of our predispositions and self-identity. From the standpoint of these philosophies, a dominant will never understand their actions without submitting and a submissive will never understand theirs without dominance. Performing the action of the “other” brings one into unity in a way that causes an evolution of awareness. This is not to say that all switches are evolved beings, but the action is necessary for those who find themselves drawn to the road less traveled.
kylune	Posted: 2005-04-26 09:27:19
Just a sub with a mean streak Canada 2020 Posts	Mine and I switch, tho in our partnership, I am more Dominant than he. And I think that for us, switching just allows us to explore more, do things we otherwise wouldnt be able to do in a classic Dominant/submissive role. For us this is exploration, fun. It is a part of what we are, yes, but we explore this for fun, pleasure, fullfillment, and even risk. We are exploring all that we can. I suppose we are just greedy. -- Act like a top predator for fucksake. -Tequila_Incognito Love is like opening a flood gate. Sometimes you get a trickle, sometimes a torrent, but always, sooner or later, love will drown you, if you're not careful. Ignorance can be cured. Stupidity is forever. BSOD's little S.L.U.T. writer extrodinaire!
NASHVILLEDOM	Posted: 2005-04-26 09:30:13
Forum Maniac USA 2541 Posts	mouksa: Every major psychological system of human development urges balance. Every “up” must be balanced by a “down”, every “good” must be balanced by a “bad”. These concepts are not for everyone, but only those with the aptitude to achieve unity within them. To truly understand these concepts one must perform an interior dissection of our predispositions and self-identity. From the standpoint of these philosophies, a dominant will never understand their actions without submitting and a submissive will never understand theirs without dominance. Performing the action of the “other” brings one into unity in a way that causes an evolution of awareness. This is not to say that all switches are evolved beings, but the action is necessary for those who find themselves drawn to the road less traveled. I may agree with you if the focus was on the individual , which in some ways it is. But if you do that the individual is in a void? In order for them to achieve that balance within themselves they need the assistance of another creating a relationship(s). The more logical is that the relationship is the instrument of the balance not the individual. nd -- At the hot one when I remember to check it.
Km4kf	Posted: 2005-04-26 09:39:36
Forum Regular USA 583 Posts	mouksa: Every major psychological system of human development urges balance. Every “up” must be balanced by a “down”, every “good” must be balanced by a “bad”. These concepts are not for everyone, but only those with the aptitude to achieve unity within them. To truly understand these concepts one must perform an interior dissection of our predispositions and self-identity. From the standpoint of these philosophies, a dominant will never understand their actions without submitting and a submissive will never understand theirs without dominance. Performing the action of the “other” brings one into unity in a way that causes an evolution of awareness. This is not to say that all switches are evolved beings, but the action is necessary for those who find themselves drawn to the road less traveled. Well put. We often move between dominance and submission though typically it is not as dramatic as with a bdsm relationship context. We are usually submissive to our parents, bosses/employers, people we greatly respect, etc. and dominant with our children, subordinates, people who show us great respect, etc. Concerning the OP, on average we are like anyone else into bdsm. We all are quite liberal if your definition of conservative sex is strictly the missionary position. Heck, we are liberal if conservative sex is kissing, caressing, rubbing and intercourse simply because none of the typical bdsm stuff is involved. Also, if you dig deep enough one can say there is dom/sub swing within each person in a bdsm top/bottom relationship. The top is submissive to the needs and safety/protection of the bottom. The bottom can be the dominant as he/she is the one who is really in control. -- Ray
Diva_	Posted: 2005-04-26 09:45:51
Forum Maniac USA 4713 Posts	The conductor of the violin can sometimes be the violin. And the music is ever so sweet. It so depends on the person and it is a happiness thing. Some do not have to switch. All is not within the box and outside the box is not labelled liberal, just different dear ND. Kindly, Diva -- hedonistah:"Diva,you are an Uber-babe AND an Uber-slut!" "Life is not a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body,but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming-"WOW-What a Ride!"Insidious are the ways of fuckers and men and those who seek to use my body, lovely and utterly fettered to the means of beyond total release to "Fucked flat"...Diva, ME
Jahc	Posted: 2005-04-26 09:47:11
Forum Slut United Kingdom 1252 Posts	Are they Ultra liberal, have an identity crisis or something else? Yawn........ -- Why poison your liver when I could eat it for you?
NASHVILLEDOM	Posted: 2005-04-26 09:49:58
Forum Maniac USA 2541 Posts	Km4kf: Concerning the OP, on average we are like anyone else into bdsm. We all are quite liberal if your definition of conservative sex is strictly the missionary position. Heck, we are liberal if conservative sex is kissing, caressing, rubbing and intercourse simply because none of the typical bdsm stuff is involved. Also, if you dig deep enough one can say there is dom/sub swing within each person in a bdsm top/bottom relationship. The top is submissive to the needs and safety/protection of the bottom. The bottom can be the dominant as he/she is the one who is really in control. -- Ray No offence but what a bunch of gobbleygook and pretty sterotypical narrow minded. The liberal is that forwhatever reason you cannot find yourself (or define) in one role. nd -- At the hot one when I remember to check it.

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